October 10th, 2025

How to Create a Legacy Home Your Family Will Cherish for Generations

The bmd editorial: Edition No. 1

For us, a legacy home is more than a residence, it’s a place that carries a family’s story forward. It’s where multiple generations can gather and feel a sense of belonging. It’s a place designed to last, not just in materials and finishes, but in the emotional weight it holds.

When we talk about legacy, we’re really talking about connection. It’s the mother who feels her heart overflow when all her children and grandchildren are under the same roof. It’s the child who grows up with summers at the lake and years later returns with their own children. It’s the comfort of knowing that no matter how life shifts, there is a place that welcomes you back.

We often say a legacy home is emotional before it is architectural. Yes, design matters. But what matters more is that the home becomes the backdrop for moments that bind generations together.

What Is a Legacy Home? Defining Generational Luxury Living

While every family’s story is unique, certain elements consistently surface when we design homes meant to last across generations. These are the pillars of legacy home design.

The Pillars of a Legacy Home: Designing Timeless Family Retreats

#1 Spaces for Gathering: Kitchens, Great Rooms, and Porches

The heart of every legacy home is its gathering spaces. Kitchens where meals are prepared as a team. Great rooms that hold both boisterous laughter and quiet late-night conversations. Porches and patios where sunsets are shared with a glass of wine.

For us, the kitchen and the living room are the heartbeat. That’s where teamwork and togetherness happen. When our family is together, everyone pitches in, cooking, helping, laughing. It’s not just about food; it’s about the time spent side by side.

Any big space for gathering becomes central. Whether it’s a game room or a long dining table, we love designing seating in little clusters. Even when everyone’s in the same room, they can still interact in smaller groups. That’s where the magic happens, nobody’s off in a corner scrolling on their phone. Everyone’s together.

Every family has a place that becomes the backdrop of its story. For us, it’s the dining table where holidays stretch long into the night, the porch where cousins gather to laugh and tell stories, and the kitchen where everyone inevitably ends up, cooking, tasting, talking, and simply being together.

When we think about our own family, these are the moments we hold closest. Christmas dinners with grandparents and cousins all under one roof. Summer weeks at a rented beach house, where our children, and now a grandchild, filled the house with laughter. And the family farm we owned and grew up visiting, where long days were spent riding four-wheelers and splashing in the pond with cousins.

Those places weren’t just backdrops; they shaped who we are.

It’s in these reflections that the heart of a legacy home becomes clear. A legacy home isn’t about grandeur or perfection. It’s about the memories already woven into its walls and the ones still waiting to be created.

So, what transforms a house into a true legacy home?

A Home That Holds Memories

Legacy homes are at their best when they hold the weight of history while still embracing the needs of the present.

Sometimes this comes in the form of heirlooms, like the portrait of a client’s grandmother that will hang in the entry hall of the family’s lake house once it is complete. The portrait is more than art; it’s a daily reminder of the woman who first purchased the property generations ago.

Other times, it’s in the subtle ways design supports modern life, integrating technology seamlessly, creating spaces where toddlers can nap just as comfortably as grandparents can retreat for quiet.

We’re always thinking about how the home can function for every person who comes. Parents with toddlers, kids who need a game room, grandparents who crave a restful space. A legacy home isn’t just for one person, it’s for everyone.

#3 Blending Heritage with Modern Comfort

Legacy homes endure through the evolution of design. This doesn’t mean every space must be traditional or restrained. In fact, many of our clients choose second homes that feel different from their main residence, lighter, more modern, or more playful. But no matter the style, we design with longevity in mind.

Durability matters as much as beauty. Performance fabrics that withstand red wine spills. Finishes and construction details that reduce maintenance for decades. Appliances that are chosen not just for sleekness but for reliability and ease of repair.

We’re always thinking about longevity, not just in furnishings but in the structure of the home. A legacy home shouldn’t feel like a burden to maintain. It should allow families to focus on living, not fixing.

#2 Timeless Interiors That Endure

The most meaningful legacy homes tell the story of the families who inhabit them.

That might be through heirloom furniture, artwork that carries emotional weight, or small intentional choices that nod to family traditions.
Often, second homes begin with a fresh slate. Yet even then, we find ways to weave in pieces that matter. It could be something inherited, or even the way spaces are designed to echo shared rituals.

Our goal is always to embed a family’s identity into the architecture and furnishings, so that when future generations walk through, they don’t just see beautiful interiors. They see themselves.

#4 Personal Storytelling Through Design

Designing a legacy home requires more than vision. For families, it begins with trust, the quiet confidence that their dreams are understood, and their hopes for generations to come will be honored.

Many of the families we work with are in the midst of big life moments: building a second home at the lake, renovating a retreat for grandchildren, or creating a place where adult children will one day return. These projects carry more than architectural weight; they carry emotional weight. A legacy home is not just a residence, but a vessel for memory. Entrusting that to someone else is no small thing.

That’s why our work is never about imposing a signature look. Instead, it’s about listening deeply, learning how a family gathers, what brings them comfort, what details make a house feel like theirs.

As a mother and daughter, we bring two vantage points to every project. One of us understands what it means to be a grandparent, to crave spaces of comfort and ease. The other lives in the daily rhythm of young children, sensitive to the need for flexibility and function. Together, we translate those perspectives into design that feels both timeless and alive. An alignment that often mirrors the very families we serve.

For our clients, this creates a rare luxury: the freedom to focus on living, while knowing their home is in capable hands. The process becomes less about managing decisions and more about anticipating the life that will unfold within the walls.

Because in the end, stewardship in design is not transactional. It is relational, an act of care, trust, and vision shared between family and designer.

Trust and Stewardship: The Role of an Interior Design Partner

A legacy home is not static. It evolves with the family it shelters. One year, it might host a toddler learning to walk. Another year, it may hold a graduation party. Decades later, it might be the holiday gathering place for grown grandchildren bringing families of their own.

This fluidity demands a flexible design approach, spaces that can adapt without losing their soul.

When you walk into a legacy home, you should feel peace. Like you’ve left the weight of the world at the door.

And part of that peace comes from knowing the home works for everyone. From a pack-and-play tucked in a closet, to a game room that keeps kids laughing for hours, to a private retreat where grandparents can rest. Legacy homes are designed with foresight, empathy, and deep respect for family rhythms.

Designing for Generations to Come: Flexible Multigenerational Living

Imagine walking through the doors of your home decades from now. The walls are lined with photos from holidays long past, little ones who are now grown, grandparents whose presence is still felt in the details they once loved. The same dining table where you celebrated your first Thanksgiving now holds new generations, laughter spilling out into the kitchen. The porch where your children once played tag is now where they sip wine with cousins after dinner.

That is the essence of a legacy home. It isn’t just a backdrop; it becomes an heirloom in itself.

The beauty of a legacy home is this: it doesn’t just hold a family’s story. It becomes part of it, and carries it forward for generations to come.

Every legacy begins with a first chapter. If you’re ready to envision yours, we invite you to connect with Beth Meyer Design.

Closing Reflection: A Legacy Home Is More Than Design

“A legacy home is most importantly about the memories and about making sure every generation feels at home.”

abby mclane